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writes:I need advice in wht to do at this point.. my bf cannot get over that I have chated in my past..(10 yrs ago) on my ex husband.. he will sometimes argue with me like if I had cheated on him. He really wants to make it work out but says his mind just gets the best of him and thinks so bad about me.. he calls me names and puts me down when he is feeling down about my past. He feels am going to do the same, since I practically pushed him into taking time apart to figure out if he still wants to b with me and get over the past. Am feeling at this point its been to long..I haven't heard from him for almost a month..Should I wait since am the one who pushed him into taking the time?Or should I just break up with him?Another thing why would he not call or txt me a thank u at least when I send him flowers for our anniversary? When I asked his mom why didn't he show up to class on that day of our anniversary she said he wasn't feeling good and out of place and more so cause of the flowers I send him... Thank you any advice will be greatly appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2011): Your bf is afraid, and you make him feel vulnerable.
He needs to get over that, but his behavior is worrisome. He seems to think that he has "moral superiority" in the relationship.
He doesn't, and we all have our issues.
"he calls me names and puts me down when he is feeling down about my past"
This is completely unacceptable in a mature loving relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2011): Your boyfriend is wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy over reacting. I mean, it was ten years ago, he wasnt even in the picture, and you aren't gonna do it again. I would tell him to move on or move out, but it is your descision.
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