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Are my instincts trying to tell me something or is this just paranoia because of what happened to me?

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Question - (25 March 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I don't know how to deal with the premise that there are so many paedophiles active and within the government. I'm 19 and when i was at school i was abused by a teacher from when i was 12 till when i left at 18. The school never did anything about it and covered it up, i went to the police but little could be done without witnesses. I have been researching his past and have gotten through 307 people with 80 replies - 9 of which were from girls with similar experiences to me all of which have been covered up by the school. I'm hoping they will come forward to give statements to police but its early days and i want to make sure we've all got a strong case.

Thing is since i was very young i had a lot of experiences with paedophiles. Two teachers at my primary school, 3 teachers at my high school- one of them was arrested for child pornography. I've been flashed quite a few times and have had random strangers come to my house but never answered the door. Recently an incident shook me-- a girl from my old school was who was 14 was sexually assaulted in her home right next to the school. He apparently told her he was a plumber come to fix the boiler so she let him in. The artist illustration looks a lot like my teacher, and i know he has a coat the same as the one they described he keeps in his cupbpoard at school along with boots and a change of trousers. She would have identified it as him though-- if it had been i would have thought. But a lot of incidents have been uncovered in recent years. I feel as though something really not right is going on; especially with the school covering up for my teacher who is on the governing board and cant help but wonder if he is tipping people off to the locations and times when young girls will be alone as i remember a time when he asked if i would be alone when i got back and that evening a white van man turned up... but i never answer the door. He used to stalk me to my house also.

I cant tell if my instincts are telling me something or its just paranoia because of what happened to me. But something about the paedophile situation in britain stinks... something isnt right. What does everyone else think?

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A female reader, YourDestiny11 United States +, writes (26 March 2010):

YourDestiny11 agony auntI think ur instincts are telling u something so u should go with them. Sorry u had to go through something so horrible. Hope things get better. Good luck.

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