My husband says I do not please him sexually. I'll try harder,... but what should I do?

A female age 36-40, *unnie poo writes:

Hi I'm having an problem with my huzzie....Our problem is in our early year or two married i use to lie to him alot and the reason for that is that he never wanted me to do anything for my self or go anyway things like that he never liked me to go by my mother so i use to go all about like the MALL by MOMMY go shopping things like that with my son and never did anything worong i never cheated on him.so 1 day i sat down and tell him what i was doing because i dont wanna be doing these thing anymore.....he got vex but things has change for a lil while the problem that i'm having now with my huzzi is he said i never use to plz him with sex:(( i start doing it now and still he's not plz with it he's work and i'm home with the baby and also doing my studys when my huzzi is bk from work like 10/11 in the nite i still try to do thins to him even if i had a very hard day with the baby....Last nite my huzzi came from home about 10 i had cook dinner for us we sat down and eat and than he said he's going to take a shower and when he's bk be ready and he knew i had a very long hard day with the baby....after he took his shower i started going down on him even in his a** to because he loves it.....after doing that i ask him what about me he said after giving him a good suck on him cock and in his a** i should be plz with that........we had a big fright about everything and he called me lair and whole sets of name that i dont wanna say rite now ....i really do need some help if i'm wrong plz let me now so i'll try harder this time plz tell me what i should do

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