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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Help! :(im a gay guy and im so confused...im 16 and im definately gay theres no question about it. I fancy guys, ive had sexual relations with guys and everyones knows me as the "gay guy".Im totally infatuated with a guy from college he's amazing and i want him so bad except he's straight. However this isnt my problem, i just wanted to get across my sexuality is not the problem here.My problem therefore is my straight girl best friend. I love her so much and were so close... i tell her everything and her the same for me :) Everyone always says we make such a nice couple and her ex boyfriend is so jealous, as lots of people are convinced something is going on.But i am gay, and recently ive been thinking that im in love with her. I dont understand as im never attracted to girls. She's beautiful in my opinion, always has all the guys after her (looks like a young prettier katie price) but she always insists she doesnt want any of them, shes had a bad time with boys and im the only guy she loves truly with all her heart. She always says to me why do i have to be gay?Another thing is when im at party and completey drunk, i have made out with girls. At a recent party we were grinding and at one point dry humping on the floor. We came close to kissing when i told her she made me happy but she turned away saying i didnt know what i was doing and that it wouldnt workseriously guys im so confused, can i, a gay guy be in love with my girl best friend and what should i do?
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reader, YourDestiny11  +, writes (26 March 2010):
 Yes u could be in love and it sounds like u are. Maybe u should talk to her about it and maybe take ur friendship further but u also have to realize this could destroy ur friendship. Good luck.
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