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He lies, cheats, drinks, watches porn, and wont have sex with me. What should I do?

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Question - (25 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 March 2010)
A female Australia age 51-59, anonymous writes:

help my partner wont stop lying. drinking. he has cheated on me with a woman from his work. have found text messages from another woman he lied and said it was his sister. he barley wants to have sex with me, once saying i was too fat, so not true. even cheated with a very fat ugly girl. he even watchs porn with the sound turned down. please help

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A female reader, kayla20 United Kingdom +, writes (25 March 2010):

kayla20 agony auntsounds like he is doing everything in his power to make you leave him because he is too much of a coward to do it himself.how can you stay with someone who treats you like this you should get some self respect and leave him you deserve better

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2010):

Leave him. plane and simple. He is waiting for you to take the initiative and leave so he doesn't feel guilt. You awe it to yourself to save your self respect which is much better than accepting humiliation. Don't tell me you love him coz he doesn't deserve it. There are plenty other fish in the sea.

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (25 March 2010):

EbonyBlossom agony auntAnswer me this question - why are you still with him?

I'm not trying to be insensitive, but you're wasting your time when you could be with someone who actually has some respect for you.

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