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*vuchick89
writes:i know my boyfriend and me both enjoy watching porn, tho we never speak about it to eachother. it seems socially awkward. i masterbate to porn behind his back sometimes, i dont believe he even knows. and i dont believe he masterbates to porn(unless he is hiding it well). i do know that everytime we are watching a sex scene in a movie tho, we are both quiet and dont say or do anything. (we just watch it)i guess what i am trying to ask is, what should i do so i dont feel so awkward when it comes to porn?
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reader, bOROi  +, writes (31 March 2010):
As long as you do not start making comparison between the actor's tool and your BF's, and similarly as long as he doesnt make comparison your attributes with that of the actress then everything will be fine. however tempted you are, pls dont ever make such comparo, unless your BF is already similarly hung.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (25 March 2010):
 Porn can be your little private time, your fantasy, much different to watching a sexy movie together which has a storyline and consequences.
I suggest if you want to bring the issue up and share it with him, you get some very light non-offensive soft porn, watch it together and try to seduce him and turn him on. I think he'll get the idea, no words need to be spoken. Afterwards you can tell him that you like to watch pornography on your own sometimes as it turns you on and makes you feel confident and sexual.
Talking and sharing private things with your partner always helps the relationship grow stronger, as long as your willing to hear his confessions too with an open mind, no judgement and no rejection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2010): why don't you two imitate what you are seeing on the screen as long as it is not something nasty as usually is in most porn films. it is much more fun than just watching.
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