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writes:im 18 years old, i like my life and am a happy girl most the time, have a good relationship with my boyfriend and family, there is just one thing that really gets me down i blush all the time over the most silly things, i literally go beetroot and i can feel my face burning, people notice and it makes me go even more red... anything can set me off blushing, it always happens, when someone i hardly know talks to me or whatever i go bright red, if im sat with my boyfriend and a sex scene comes on the tv i go bright red i dont know why this happens because im not shy infront of my boyfriend at all... its got to the point when im always concious because anything can set it off, do you have any advice and any ideas how i can stop or control this blushing because its making me feel really stupid. i thought it would ware off as i got a bit older but it seems to have got worst. what can i do?
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reader, KateMcL  +, writes (25 March 2010):
 Finally someone who has the same prob as me! omg this has been getting me really done as it just happens over like really small things e.g a teacher calling my name, i find it so hard to keep eye contact for atleast 2-3 secs its getting me down so much because i feel really ugly or fat when someone talks to me. all my friends have made comments about it and i really want to control it, sometimes i often breathe in and out and count to 5 or something and went till it has gone down abit to even look at them lol.
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reader, Smellyellie +, writes (25 March 2010):
 there is nothing that you can do im afraid.
blushing is caused by a rush of blood to the surface of the skin so unless you can stop yourself from being in akward positions then you wont be able to stop the blushing xx
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (25 March 2010):
'Blushing' is totally natural and is often unnoticed by those around you? Focus on this fact and realise many others do not worry about it. I am sure you are very attractive so what does it matter?
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