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*eather016
writes:Is it normal to feel pity for your ex's current situation?I mean, in my case, the guy I used to date "suddenly had a change of appetite" and went for another girl. Or in other words, he dumped me for someone else.Yesterday he wasnt in campus the entire day. I saw that girl cosied up with another guy. Not that I saw anything physical going on but it was obviously a really close distance between them. I felt sad, at that instant, for him. I wondered if he knew about that guy. I wonder, now, if she's a potential player and is probably doing the same thing he had done to me. It doesn't make me happy. It makes me sad. I am sure all the pain and humiliation he had put me through made me so numb. I am sure I have the slightest feeling left for him.But why did I felt sorry for him?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (25 March 2010):
 Like Aunty BimBim said:
"You are basically a nice person, who don't like seeing people getting hurt."
Personally I would NOT tell him about his new GF escapades, leave them both out of your life. It will just cause drama, you don't need or want, trust me on that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2010): aww thats so nice...If ur completely sure she is cheating on him, he could be just a close friend because if she is wouldnt she try to hide it? R u sure ur feelings r clouding wwhat u really saw? and maybe u want him to know so that he feels what u felt when he did that to u? If ur really really sure, maybe u can tell him in a way that he wont find out it was u, as he may think ur jelous and trying to ruin their rship. Send him a note under his door, or an email from another email address. But kep away if u doing it so u can get back with him and can 'cry on ur shoulder' and show him what he is missing. I know I may sound bit horrible but Im trying to be honest. Thanks hope i made sense. Good luck. :)
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reader, kelly Marie hill  +, writes (25 March 2010):
its ok to feel like that tell ur ex that you seen his girlfriend with another guy just in case try to catch her out again and take a photo
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reader, heather016 +, writes (25 March 2010):
heather016 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt's sad that he doesnt know about it, i think... =(
But I'm not going to tell him anyway...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2010): Because you still like him
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (25 March 2010):
 because you are basically a nice person and you dont like to see people hurting
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