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*allie96
writes: right i have a boyfriend who i have been with for over 10 months. i cheated on him just before christmas. he knows about this and i was completley honest but feel like i need to make it up to him, how do i do this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2010): Just because he may forgive doesn't mean that he will trust you. You have earn his forgiveness and his trust.
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reader, Honest_Answers +, writes (25 March 2010):
You stay faithful now. A relationship will just get back to normal if it's meant to be. If he chose to forgive you then just accept that he's put it behind him and has chosen to live with it, so just be the best girlfriend you can be - don't be too possessive, be pretty, funny and smile, old fashioned but it works!
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reader, Smellyellie +, writes (25 March 2010):
Make sure that you tell him that he is the one that you want to be with and tell him that you never wanted to cheat on him and tell him that you feel guilty about it. you just need to tell him how you feel. if you dont then the guilt will only turn to resentment and could end up damaging the relationship that you have.
just make him fell special in general :)
hope this helps x
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reader, Tasmanian devil +, writes (25 March 2010):
You could do a gesture to show how much he means to you, how much you care about and how your comitted to the relationship, it doesn't have to be anything big. Just to let him know your sorry and it was a mistake.
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reader, _Katy_Did_ +, writes (25 March 2010):
You can't. I'm sorry to say, you made a mistake that can't me made up for or taken back. He's always going to feel bad about it and he'll always think about it as long as you two are together. He did chose to take you back so the best you can do is just try to move on from it and gain his trust back. To do that, of course you can't cheat again. That's an obvious one. You're probably going to have to let him know what you're doing and what you're up to more often than you would have before simply because he's going to be paranoid now.
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