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writes:Well I am not quite sure what I am asking...a few weeks ago I ended up having cyber sex with a girl I have known online for a few months. It wasn't really planned, but we had admittedly found ourselves very attracted to each other.We talked about sex for hours one evening, and while we were talking about it, we ended up getting carried away into fantasising about having sex together, and that was it. I got extremely horny and started masturbating. I told her I was and she also said she was feeling very turned on. We continued exchanging sexual messages to turn each other on until I came (which was the most intense orgasm I have ever had [I am a virgin] ).Before anyone says anything, I know she is genuine about her feelings, and isn't an internet creep.My problem is I am feeling a bit weird about having done it. Should I?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (18 March 2010):
 Both of you are real persons but you have never met each other in the real world . Even if you do meet in real life, what you do in the internet is different from the real life. It is another world running parallel to the real world.
The internet is an interactive medium for mass media communications or a virtual world where you can become anybody you want. You can create fantasies with another person .
It could be just a passing fad and it happens a lot in online chat sites where people just let loose their sexual inhibitions .
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reader, GoGreen126 +, writes (18 March 2010):
I know the weird feeling. Cyber/phone sex is VERY strange. Some people like the idea, and some don't. Personally, I find them to be nice because my boyfriend and I know we aren't ready for sex. We are always discussing how to better cause pleasure without going below the belt.
The first time we had phone sex, I felt guilty and I didn't know why. Actually, I still don't know why. The guilt soon goes away, and then just enjoy it if it works for your relationship.
I have 2 warnings for you:
1. Early on in a relationship, talking a lot about sex can cause the relationship to move and progress faster than either party may like. Watch out and still take it slow.
2. I've never had an orgasm. In phone sex, my bf got frustrated because I couldn't describe it for him, the sounds I'd make or what my body would do. Be careful not to do that to a girl, it's awkward and she will shut down immediately.
Good luck,
Feel free to message me with questions,
--GG
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