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female
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26-29,
*andyCurves
writes:Why does this guy i used to like "play" my friend , when we have a history. Does that define him as a player?I heard he was, but i refused to believe it untill i saw it with my own eyes. If Im honest, from the bottom of my heart I still have feelings towards himOr is he just a really bad guy , that i should stay away from?Thanksis he trying to make me jealous?please help, im so confused!
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (20 March 2010):
 Painful to see someone you really like and were involved with making a pass at your friend. Boys do this because they never get emotionally attached, not until they find 'the one'.
There are things you can do to make yourself feel better. The first being to keep away from him and avoid situations where you will see him making more passes at your friend. If shes a good friend, explain to her that your finding it a bit painful and maybe ask her to help you get over him by just seeing her on her own and asking her not to talk about him.
He isnt trying to make you jealous, unless he was really 'into' you and you dumped him. If he ended your relationship, then he has moved on and there is little you can do to salvage things.
Protect yourself and find things to distract yourself until your over the 'hurting' stage. There will be other relationships in your future and you will be better equipped if you learn from this experience.
xxx Aunty Em
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