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*li123
writes:hello im 19 and my boyfriend doesnt want sex does this mean he find me unatrative? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 March 2010):
If you haven't had sex before, then he could be scared. If you have, then something's wrong. None of this means you're unattractive, and it doesn't mean it's your fault either.
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reader, joe26  +, writes (17 March 2010):
 hmm more details would be great to answer your questions. there could be some factors that causing him not to have sex with you. 1. heavy work pressure 2. poor diets and rest 3. womens sex drive higher than man 4. porn addiction and frequent maturbation 5. or getting it elsewerewell, you need to talk to him, find out asap before it gets too late. If theres medically wrong get him to see the doc to fix it. If theres work pressure overload just get him to have plenty of rest and diet. Try to spice up your sex life by doing some new stuffs. Stay fit and healthy as possible that might bust your confident lvl and self esteem to new height. sexless relationship is really a painfull...and there must be one of this strong reason to avoid sex. sorry my english...hope it helps cheers,x
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (17 March 2010):
 Have you had sex with him before?
If not, then barring religious reasons, moral preferences, std's, fear of getting you pregnant, etc, ..he is most likely just nervous and worried about his performance or package size.
If you have and this is a sudden change, ..well then that would be odd and definately require further investigating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010): Usually answers to these cases have nothing to do with the other person. Iam pretty sure he is the one who feels uncomfortable... Maybe for his body or even for his 'tool'.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010): amsorry to be the onetelling u this,but respondingtour question its a sad yes :( men seek sex with whatever girl,they're driven by their hormones.....
i guess that he is sleeping with someone else..a godess in bed maybe , this is why he's been refusing u.
or maybe he is afraid of this next step ,and prefers to take a short workin ur park.
gd luck anyways
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