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writes:Hello, I've been with my boyfriend for a while now and we both love each other deeply. I've not noticed this much but lately it's been bothering me a little more than it should. I think my boyfriend's Dad has a crush on me. When both my boyfriend and me are around him, he winds my boyfriend up and makes fun of him as if he were trying to impress me. As neither of us can drive yet the Dad takes me home at night time(with my boyfriend with me). And lately I've noticed him looking at me through the wing mirror, trying to make eye contact. Plus, when my boyfriend and I lye down together in the living room he constantly comes in, or makes excuses to come in. Don't get this wrong, I don't like my boyfriend's Dad in that way. I'd just like some advice to stop this, because even my boyfriend is started to notice tiny things. And I'd love some help to solve this without affecting my relationship.Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2010): Thanks to all your replies,
I'm replying to those who answered my question. To the first who answered; yes he does have a sister and she's 13. For the third who answered; I'm not sure my boyfriend's Dad is coming in the living room to see if there's any 'business' going on in there as he knows we wouldn't do that, he simply makes any excuse, whether to say 'hi' to me or to see if we're finished with the biscuits because he wants one(when there's probably another packet in the kitchen).
Anyways, thanks people.
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (17 March 2010):
I think you may have a better indication than we do. From what you say, it just sounds like he's teasing his son, not to impress you, but because that's what guys do to each other espeically when their girlfriend is around. If you two are lying in the living room in HIS house, then he's probably making sure nothing is going on in there that shouldn't be. So from what you say, it doesn't sound like anything to me, but when you're there firsthand, you may be getting a different vibe. If you're uncomfortable then have your boyfriend come to your house instead of always going over there.
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