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writes:I'm 15 and all the men I fancy or have ever been fixated by, may they be celebrites or people I know, are in their 30s.I've been like this since I started secondary school. If I walk past a guy who looks my age and is attractive, I am not interested at all. I just love older men. I know it's not wrong to have a really big age gap and if it feels right, it doesn't matter. Age is just a number. But I can't help but wonder...does anybody else feel this way? Or am the only one...Thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010): you are not alone! I'm 14 and all the boys my age just seem way to immature and babyish. The other girls are all excited about their crushes from within the school, but the only guys I am attracted to are much, much older than me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2010): Not at all alone... I fancy someone far over three times my age. Ugh.
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reader, HurdlerHottie (:  +, writes (19 March 2010):
You are NOT alone. I too have kind of felt this way. Although I am attracted to teenagers, older men, such as my teachers turn me on. It doesn't help when he flirts with me, but that's beside the point. Just know you're not alone! I'm fifteen too, and all I can say is either wait it out, or if you do find an older man, be sure he's right for you and it's what you want. This decision will effect your life and the way you function. Trust me, I now cannot go a dat without thinking about this teachers who flits with me and I feel sexual tension towards.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2010): No you aren't the only one, trust me hun! :) I am 17, and have been counting down the days till I am 18...since I was about your age, maybe even younger. But, it wouldn't be appropriate for you to date an older man at your age, and you wouldn't want a 30 year old man who is willing to date a 15 year old anyway! My advice is to date someone a few years old, like 17-19. Or, if you really aren't attracted to any teens, just try to wait it out till you are of age. Good luck!
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (18 March 2010):
 You are not the only one out there. Although I do not have first hand experience of this I have seen countless quetions asked by guys and girls around your age finding older men or women attractive. Some grow out of it but others it will be there till I guess you are actually that age. My gf finds older men very distinguished and handsom. Just remember if you do ever start to date an older man that it is best to wait till you're 18 and just to watch out, there are alot of dangers involved.
Hope this helps you out.
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reader, sincerelovee +, writes (18 March 2010):
 no way! im thirteen and i love donny osmond who is now 52, and i also love rob lowe who is idek, but i definatly thought i was the only one who liked other men. haha(:
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reader, Lanzie +, writes (18 March 2010):
I feel the exact same way! I have always have found older men attractive. I think it is because I find intelligence, and maturity attractive. Don't worry it normal. Plus sometimes the guys your own age age are still boyish looking and older men, are just so well rounded and manly looking, its sexy.
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