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writes:To cut it short, I ended my special relationship a month ago. But it still hurts to walk around all these places I went with him. We went to a lot of places which I usually go to. There are just too much memories evoked when I go to these places which I really can't avoid. The campus library, the restaurants, the dorm... In fact, I start staying at home instead of the dorm because I can't bear to remember all those things we had.He told me to forget him and to forget all the memories we had because he doesn't feel anything for me. As women/girls, I think you'll all agree with me that sometimes it puzzles girls how guys can change so quickly and forget everything "we" had! And he thinks people change and that's why he thinks we're never going to be together anymore. There's a third party involved. That's why he doesn't hurt much from our ended relationship. It hurts too much to walk around the campus! =( the library! the hallway! everywhere. and it hurts more when I see them together in the library. Please, everyone, advise me on this. The pain is sometimes intolerable. It's not just the memories we had. It's also about me bumping into him with someone else. Reply to this Question
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reader, Entirely Unique  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 We all have to go through something like this in life and we all somehow manage to find a way to deal with it and get through each day until the pain is less painful or we've somehow learn to numb it as much as possible.
You can't spend your life avoiding places you need to be.
Theres no quick cure for a broken heart but there are ways to deal with it, just find something for you that will at least draw your attention and feelings away from the situation as best as you can until you find you can deal with it.
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