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How can I be happy when I'm so neurotic?

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Question - (17 March 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 March 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *andyCurves writes:

Iv only just realised that im Neurotic and life is really miserable. I just want to be happy for once in my life, without something really minor effecting me?

How can I be really happy? and what can I do?thanks!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2010):

Hello. Im sure you arent really neurotic. Life can make you feel that way sometimes. I remember going through the same sort of thing when i was your age. I became very intense about everything. Im not anymore, you do grow out of it. But if you feel things are getting the better of you, then talk to your mum about going to the doctor for a chat.

I went with my daughter recently because she found she couldnt cope around period times. She was getting very stressed, emotional and it was affecting her badly. She was put on one of the contraception pills. Its done wonders by leveling out her hormone levels.

Im not saying thats the case with you but you will find an answer to your problem, by talking to your mum and asking for a little help x

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (18 March 2010):

SirenaBlusera agony auntI want to help you, but I think that counseling is the best thing for you. I think that you should talk to someone. Have you looked into counseling?

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A female reader, springluv2 United States +, writes (18 March 2010):

just take life one day at a time and do what makes you happy

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A female reader, jinxy United States +, writes (18 March 2010):

i understand what you're going through completely. me being 16 and all. I'm actually a very neurotic person myself.. i noticed it around your age (i have been this way for as long as i can remember but I really started to notice it around 13-15).

It gradually got worse and worse until this summer i couldn't live an hour without extreme worry. I worried about everything imaginable...

Me and my mother decided enough was enough and I went to see a therapist. She diagnosed me with moderate to sever anxiety disorder, depression and OCD. I started taking a very small dose of zoloft and i swear to god it changed my world. I hardly worry at all anymore about the little stuff.

Don't discourage yourself, it'll all get better if you are courageous enough to get help. Just believe you will be happy and you will be. Believe me 3

if you have any questions at all email me anytime ^^ [email address blocked]

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