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writes:Im a young teenager trying to keep my virginity, although my boyfriend respects my decision but it kills him, im 15 and his 19,what should i do becouse i really love him Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): am 18,my bf and i ve bin dating 4 5yrs he is 21 but am still a virgin he luvz and respect my views.if ur man truly loves u he'll wait no mata how long.just be urself and pray 4 God's intervention.
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reader, Lyra Anna  +, writes (21 March 2010):
 You should keep your virginity until you want to lose it. Simple.
If he loves you as much as you love him, that waiting process wouldn`t be a problem.
You don`t have to do any uncomfortable actions.
It`s all up to you.
Good luck, be smart!
=)
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reader, MonksDaBomb  +, writes (18 March 2010):
 This is simple - YOU want to keep your virginity, so it's primarily YOUR decision - sex is so important that one should be 100% sure it is what they want to do before they do it because there's no turning back afterwards. Just tell him that you love him but you want to wait. If he truly loves you, he'll wait with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010): These kinds of problems are why age really is more than "just a number".
If you were dating another 15yo boy I doubt you would be feeling this kind of pressure to give him the kind of sex life another 19yo is likely to give him.
You should be waiting just as long with this guy as you would like to wait with a younger one. If he can't wait, then HE is the one who is not willing to deal with the age difference appropriately, not you.
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reader, Thesol  +, writes (17 March 2010):
 Just tell him your not ready! if he truely loves you he will understand, *I'm still a virgin*
Trust me love is stronger than that
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010): You are a very respecful person wanting to keep your virginity. Sadly, i made the mistake of loosing it at 16 when i really didnt want to. I think you're boyfriend is being unfair. Although you said he respects your desicion, he should be more than happy to wait for you. But if its "killing" him to not have sex, is that really the guy you want? Even though you may love him its not right for you to be feeling this way. I can garantee you'll find a guy who really loves how respectful your being and you'll be a lot lot happier and love him much more becuase he wont be making you feel this way.
You know what the right desicion is, you've just got to stick to it :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010): You absolutely should NOT give in to his pressure. Being a virgin for your husband is a very special thing. I'm not saying you should stay a virgin if you don't get married until you're 30 or something. But don't throw it away at 15. My wife was a virgin when we got engaged (at 19). It is really special for us. There is no past baggage to tear into the relationship.
If he pressures you, and you love him, consider doing other things (major foreplay if you know what I mean). This is what my wife did before she met me. If that isn't enough for him and he keeps up the pressure, then I would dump him and move on to someone who respects your wishes.
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reader, Yarou  +, writes (17 March 2010):
 Well my opinion , if you want to keep your virginity he has to respect that, and by that you can do anything exept sex, maybe that would be enough for him ?
Try :)
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