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writes:Hi Have known this guy for the past 4 years - told him how i feel about him from the start - use to phone and speak for hours and chat online nearly every night. He lives about 4 hours from me. Have met up on a few occasions. Over the years we have had our fall outs but have always kept in touch one way or the other. Last year he deleted me from his msn, fb etc and has told me to move on he isnt interested - although he has said this many times over the period.I have kept in touch with text and he might or might not reply. Last week we spoke on the phone for 3 hours, he called me the following morning and texted later that day. Since then nothing! I will not contact him again as in the past.He is single and never married or had a long relationship.What is this mans issue - why does he behave this way?Please any suggestions Thanks
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (17 March 2010):
 You need to break away from him. I know it's hard as he is probably fulfilling some lonely need in your life but it's scraps from the table and I am sure your worth so much more.
He has made it plain that he isn't interested and probably just called or texted you the last time because he was bored...people do do this and your letting yourself be toyed with and it's throwing you into confusion.
Nothing can be gained from continuing the contact. His opinion won't change or he could just end up using you for sex and dumping you (thank your lucky stars that hasn't happened). You said yourself he's never had a serious relationship so maybe he's just someone who never commits.
Do you want or need the stress worry or pain???
Move on darling and don't look back. Focus on yourself and get out and meet other people.
Best of luck
Aunty Em xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010): He behaves this way because he hasn't met the right person yet and he's letting you know that person isn't you. It's best to move on and spend your time on someone who feels passionately about you and loves you.
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reader, heather016  +, writes (17 March 2010):
You might think I'm not old enough to comment but it's just my comment, anyway. I learnt that if a guy tells you repetitively he's not interested in you, you should get the message. I'm sorry if I put this in a blunt way but I agree with CaringGuy. I had a hard time to accept this too except that in my case, he told me to move on and that he doesnt feel the same for me anymore.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 March 2010):
Because he isn't interested. I know you like him, but he just isn't interested. The best thing you can do is totally move on from him.
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