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writes: So my girl friend who is the love of my life broke up with me recently. We dated about one year and it was the best time of my life. When we met I had many girls as friends, some were girls I dated in the past and some were just friends. We had a long distance relationship (3-5) hours. Over the year she became very jealous of my girl friends and began to question why she never met any of them. Well, she ended up breaking into my email and reading private emails. I am a very emotional guy and there were heart to heart emails from two ex-girlfriends in there within the last two months. Both of these women are married and I want nothing but happiness for them in their lives. In these eamils there was some talk of how much we loved eachother then, and that there were reasons why it didn't work out etc... One is pregnant and she though she couldn't ever have another baby so I was happy for her etc... Other emails may have been happy birthday to a girl I dated once before we ever met and other things like this that I didn't think much of. I love her to death and would never cheat on her. But she said she didn't trust me and was very matter of fact. Almost cold. We never were at a loss for words on how we felt so she knows she is the love of my life. She also said I was acting to jealous of her and geting mad when she went out. I want her back. What should I do? It's been a week but feels like a year. Everyone says wait 3 weeks to talk to her if she doesn't call. Can I do anything?? Help.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (18 March 2010):
 Hun, you have shown your gf by your behaviour that you have no intention of changing, dont respect her and you are wanting to control her. That is enough to make a woman want to run away.
The emails you were sending could be construed as cheating, so you have probably hurt her very deeply and destroyed all trust she had in you.
I think that you need to learn from your lesson and start changing your behaviour, maybe she will want to hook up with you again if you can prove to her that you are trustworthy and love only her...
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (18 March 2010):
NO
It is over - move on. Take this as a lesson learn't and not to be repeated.
The love of my life left and that was after 28 years and it has taken me 9 months to at least be a little more cheerful.
That said I am still beeply depressed and distressed, I to did nolthing wrong.
Just let each day pass and hopefully in a couple of months it will not hurt so much.
If you have a g/f that would go out with you do so now without delay?
Sorry - not what you wanted to hear!!!!!!!!!!!!
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