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writes:Please I need advice in what to do to get my Ex fiance back. Have few Questions? please give me good advice.My Ex and I were together for almost 2 years, got engaged last december, looking to get marry this coming april, we are going to close in a house by april too. I am accountable for what I did, I take the whole responsability of all my wrong doings. 1st When I moved with her a year and half ago, I sold my house because I lost my job, couldnt pay my morgage...anyway I have a storage unit so I put the majority of my stuff there, didnt feet, so I call a woman that she was living close to me, if she can keep some of furniture because I was going to leave the country. I mee this woman 4 years ago, saw her 4-5 times, slept with her once, before I met my Fiance. so she said Yes. She always like me. so I gave her false hopes that I will return and I will think about it, knowing myself that I was using her as my storage, I dont like her, never did, I wa just using her. anyway told my ex that all my furniture was in storage. so when we bouth the house my intentions was to pick my stuff, and tell her that I was using her and I have to pick up my stuff, at this point doesnt matter the things. I am so stupid. I created a yahoo account, just to communicate with her and I reply to her emails 3-4 times in the last year and half, telling her that I was not comming back yet, also she express love for me, and i express similar thing to her playing a game , so my stuff will be safe. so my Fiance found that about 3 weeks ago. she planned and kicked me out of the house 2 weeks ago. in top of that I watch 2 video adult movie in my computer twice last year, she told me that she didnt like it and I watch another video for 10 minutes 6 or seven months after, conciding that was also three weeks ago, also she found that about the yahoo account and she read the emails.She told me that everything was over, told everybody that she broke our engagement, she wrote me a good by letter that day. anyway...I did all the text message terrorism, send her emails, everything..it didnt work, she call me twice and told me that she miss me and when to my hotel last sunday ,we have intimacy, we both cry, we both express each other our love but she said that its oover.I dont have any contact with her since sunday, is almost 3 weeks since we broke up, dont know what to do, I feel like I am living in hell, I deserve it, but i have hope to get her back, I dont have any communication with her since monday morning, should I keep it that way? what is going to happen? does she is going to miss me? does she will doubt about her decision? she didnt mention what she is going to do with her ring? what it thats means? hope? what startegy should I use, I am currently in therapy, because my emotions are in the roller coaster. Please give me, I am asking for good advice. Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2010): You deserve everything you got. Playing or not using someone is not smart. Your fiance saw right through you.
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