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Why can't he just break up with her if he likes me?

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Question - (17 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 March 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *_love_you1230 writes:

So ive liked this guy for two years... he has a girlfrend though. I told him last year that i liked him and he told me that he liked me back. heres the problem... hes been telling me for about 6 months now that he wants to break up with his girlfrend for me but he doesnt want to hurt her. he always makes it seem like he wants to be with me and recently told me hes in love with me but he still loves his girlfrend nd doesnt wanna break up with her. now what i want to know is do you think he is just using me? does he really wanna go out with me or does he juss need someone to flirt with when he cant be with his girlfrend?

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (18 March 2010):

Honeygirl agony auntHun, this guy is just loving the fact that he has two gf and enjoying cheating on the other gf with you!

If he really felt something for you he would break up with his current gf, but to be honest, he likes things just the way they are.....

And anyway, it really boosts his ego to have 2 girls running after him!

Hun, rather find someone who will treat you properly, as I am sure that if you were to be this guys gf he would cheat on you too!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2010):

Hello. 6 months is too long to just be talking about it. If he really wanted to leave her to be with you i think he would have done it by now. Ive a feeling thats how you think too. Maybe try not chatting to him about it anymore, just be friends but dont ask for anything else. Either he will see that he is losing your interest and do something about it fast. Or as i suspect. He will just leave it and stay with his gf. It might be flattering for him to think he has you hanging around waiting until hes free. Remove that option and see what happens x

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