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How do I stop myself getting back with my cheating boyfriend?

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Question - (17 March 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 17 March 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend cheated...how do i keep myself from geting back together with him?

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A female reader, Lexie88 Australia +, writes (17 March 2010):

Lexie88 agony auntI agree with the other Aunts...no contact with this man, ever. He's not worth your time or attention.

A man who had no respect for you, doesn't deserve your time or attention. You stop yourself by realizing that he doesn't love or respect you. Don't lower your standards and allow him to use you. You're better than that and there'a guy out there who will love and respect you. Never settle for less.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (17 March 2010):

Cut all contact. No meetings, no texts, no emails, no facebook. Get rid of photos, letters. Everything. Then look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself whether you want to mean nothing to a cheating man, or something to a nice guy.

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A female reader, kayla20 United Kingdom +, writes (17 March 2010):

kayla20 agony auntdont listen to his excuses and his apologises if he loved you he wouldnt have cheated in the first place you deserve someone who is going to treat you with respect if he has done it once he could do it again and yourl be back in the same situation try and move on forget about him and find someone that is going to treat you with the respect you deserve good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010):

Gurl im going threw the same thing;;

&& its so hard for us;; cause its like there our life!!

girl stay strong;; dnt be friends wit him and dnt start drama;; be friends wit him when you kno you dn t got feelings like me

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (17 March 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntCut him off completely from your life or from the face of the Earth. Remove everything that reminds of him or what he has given to you.

Harden your heart and ignore all his calls or text . Say, 'Never! Never again with him!'

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