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writes:I am 21 and I am with my girlfriend, my sweetheart for 2 years now. we love each other a lot. I want her to be extremely happy, singing and dancing as she is always therefore I am a concerned about a problem that is affecting her. She has been having dreams for the past many years in which she sees planes crashing and that terrifies her in the middle of the night and she gets disturbed a lot. She tells me that she saw a plane crash infront of her eyes 6 years ago(a notorious incident of Pakistan's history and she was there). Yet another strange thing is that she can't help herself watching shows and movies of planes and plane crashes. She states "I am a kind of addicted to it knowing the fact that the images haunt me in dreams and still I am unable to avoid them". Are her irregular periods a cause of such dreams? She has irregular periods' schedule and she suffers from intense back pain in periods. She is underweight as well due to weakness and never has much urge for food.I love her more than my life and want to help her in all these issues. All views would be appreciated. Thanks.
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reader, good soul  +, writes (13 November 2009):
 her problem seems seriousbad news- you can not do muchgood news- the doctors canfirst of all... take her to a psychiatrist. please dont take me wrong . only very good and intense therapy can cure the dreams problem. her dreams are not becoz of irregular periods. its in her sub conscious mind.but her irregular periods could be because of the dreams. she also needs to see gyaenecologist (doctor for women) for the periods and back pain. it could be some serious problem. and please for God's sake, dont watch planes on tv when she is around. it will make her feel lonely and stain your relationship.and it seems that you love her a LOT !!!thats good man! i wish your girl a speedy recovery.
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