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30-35,
*ola29
writes:my bf and i had a fight a few weeks ago, and he was being very stubborn and said this line "if u really loved me then why are u making this a big deal"ive been thinking of wat he said, and i know he's not great in argueing and tends to say things without thinking it. But this makes me feel he doesnt trust me enough to not use My love for him as a solution to every problem we have. I feel he's very insecure about me and about how i feel towards me. any other opinions on why he;d say that? thank u
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2009): it wud depend on what the arguement was about in order for him to say that. if it was over something petty then it may just mean that u have bigger things to deal with rite now to be argueinmg over that or like u sed he may not have been thinking straight wen he sed. have u spoken to him about wot he sed? it wud be wise to ask him before u get really insecure about it and think it means something that it dosent. good luck
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