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*oanie
writes:just under 3 weeks ago i had a tattoo done. it wasn't my first tattoo, it was a cover up of an old one. the tattooist was a man in his late 40s, who didn't look like a typical tattooist at all. he was just an attractive older man. he also had a magnetic personality, and now i can't stop thinking about him. i think i'm in love. should i ask him to go for a drink with me?he told me that he does latin/ballroom dancing as a hobby, and the name of the dance studio he goes to. should i start classes at the studio?
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reader, Joanie +, writes (9 December 2009):
Joanie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i went out for a drink with my tattooist last night and we had a very good time. we got on very well, the time flew by and it couldn't have been better. we talked mainly, but there was a little bit of flirting going on as well and he was asking me questions about my relationships etc. at the end of the night he walked me home and gave me a hug and a peck on the cheek. he has now asked me to go out with him for a meal/drinks one saturday night, and he said after the meal we could go someone cosy where we can be alone. do you think i should go?
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reader, Joanie +, writes (7 December 2009):
Joanie is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni sent him a text telling him he is a very special man, and as a result he asked me to go for a drink with him. i'm seeing him tomorrow night
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reader, called Steve +, writes (27 November 2009):
 I'd just bite the bullet and ask him out now... it seems he is playing the professional etiquette line.
Steve
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reader, Joanie +, writes (27 November 2009):
Joanie is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni sent my tattooist a thank you card for the beautiful tattoo he'd just given me. he sent me a text thanking me, and now i've just had a text from him saying that he will cherish the card and i mean the world to him!!!
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reader, Joanie +, writes (26 November 2009):
Joanie is verified as being by the original poster of the questioneverytime i go to see my tattooist (i've had 2 x tattoos and 1 x body piecing, plus various aftercare check ups), we talk for ages afterwards about all sorts of things. he has now said that if i ever just want to pop into his shop for a chat after work, i'm very welcome. i don't know if he's just being very friendly or working up towards something else. how can i find out?
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reader, called Steve +, writes (23 November 2009):
Sounds like he's interested but make sure you are not treading on anyone's toes hun...
Steve
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reader, Joanie +, writes (23 November 2009):
Joanie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsince i posted my question i have been back to see my tattooist for another tattoo. he told me that he has done various courses on body massage and would like me to have a full body massage. should i do it?
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reader, called Steve +, writes (13 November 2009):
Hmmm... have you ever fallen for someone else who makes you feel valued and attractive i.e. your Doctor, Teacher, Lecturer? It is quite common to think you have fallen for someone who makes you feel good. Its like a temporary ego boost, but that's all it is temporary.
It might be worth going back in to ask his advice about another tattoo and begin to ask some personal question. Married? Dating etc if he sees the signs, he'll ask you otherwise I'd back off... you may be reading to much into it!
Steve x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2009): I would not join the class straight away!! but would say to him that you would like to go along and take a look at the class one evening, and see what his reaction is. If he is keen, he will be more than happy, and enthusiastic about you going along. Gd luck !! keep us posted!!
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