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*ola29
writes:So this is a question of whether or not i should be jealous, i opened my fb and i see a tagged picture of my bf, with a girl giving him a big side smooch on his cheek, but thats it, no other picture. for some reason im not bothered but i feel like my subconscious is telling me i should be. i know its nothing, i know this girl and i know they dont hang otu much, but i dont see why she has the need to pose like that with him. should i mention it to my bf?
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reader, lola29 +, writes (13 November 2009):
lola29 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso he just untagged the picture, should i be suspicious?
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reader, Louise-uk  +, writes (13 November 2009):
 Hello.
She doesn't need to pose like that, but some people are just like that. They sometimes don't mean any harm. I've been in exactly the same situation as you in the past. Although I made the mistake of not thinking it through, and it consequently sounded like I didn't trust him.
You can speak to your boyfriend, but make sure it doesn't come across like you don't trust him. Have a little think about what you want to say first.
I hope you soon feel more comfortable with it all. Good luck!!!
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reader, KQM  +, writes (13 November 2009):
 Hi, If the photo is displayed on FB for all to see, I don't think it is something to worry too much about. However, I suggest for your piece of mind, you have a calm chat to your FB and explain to him how it makes you feel. Ask him how the photo came about. Ask him how he would feel if you had a pic similar to this in your Profile. Ask him nicely to remove it if it makes you uncomfortable.
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