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anonymous
writes:I think I experienced my first real blackout. I ended up one night at a friend's place, and this is what I remember: talking, him teasing me to drink more when I was already too drunk, being sleepy, him kissing me, making out... then we were in his room and he wanted me to touch him, but I didn't want to... hours later, I remember him wanting to have sex but I didn't want to. And then we both went to sleep. I woke up the next morning still in underwear and very confused. I'm sure we didn't have sex, but what happened in those 4 hours I can't remember. I'd remember if something happened, right? This is a friend, and I don't think he would hurt me. But he's been avoiding me since so I can't ask him. Don't worry, I'll never drink like that again. I feel so stupid. Should I still hang out with this guy in a group? How can I get rid of this bad feeling I have about him? He was drunk too, so it isn't his fault either. Is it silly that I feel so weird about this?
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reader, rip D.S.  +, writes (13 November 2009):
chances are he feels guilt for attempting that, than again its possible that he has feelings for you and when his will was weakened they came out, and he was rejected. were the most honest when were at are weakest. I suggest calling or texting him and tell him you guys need to talk. take it easy, good choice on not drinking. but unfortunately that's an experience pretty much everyone goes thru. goodluck and take care
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