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writes:Hey!! You guys have to help me!! Ok...so there is this guy that i was/am/could be kinda seeing..but it is a long distance thing...coz he lives in Wales and me in London. BUT...we've only been together a short while so its nothing serious at all...i met him over summer...and then he had to leave to go back to Wales for uni. BUT...recently he texted me saying that he was having second thoughts and that we should be just friends...he said that he didnt want to be committed to someone he only sees rarely..which is fair enough...so it was over...BUT then since then he's been saying on and off that we should give it a go...but then the next day he changes his mind again...and so on for the last week and half...but basically he's said he likes me...SO...the problem is that although this was already really confusing coz i had no idea what to do (and neither did he)...i ruined it more... Basically...last weekend i text him saying (coz i REALLY like him) that 'we can make it work...i can make more of an effort and come and see u more often..tickets are cheap anyway etc and then it wont be seeing eachother rarely..'...and he replied back saying 'dont u think u are getting a bit carried away. We've gone out a few times and now you wanna move to Wales'....so basically i think he thinks i'm desperate or clingy etc right? ....and i didnt reply to that...but then he text me again an hour later saying 'if yoy come and visit we can see how it goes'...ANd since then i havn't replied...coz i dont know what what to say... The thing is that i like him a lot so i want it to work..and i somehow feel that if we do meet again...it will kinda sort itself out coz clearly he likes me (i think)...So...what should i say....that will make this work...but wont make me sound like i'm desperate... i dont wanna just turn up at his doorstep esp when the situation is as awkward as this...please please please please help me...i really dont know what to do....and i have to reply soon...thankssss
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reader, collegegirl909  +, writes (13 November 2009):
 you know what he seems like he likes you and all but why would he say you are too farward the guy i been dating for not long has never said that..... if someone really cares they dont care how many times u visit they shall be happy you visit...
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