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writes:i am 22 now .i was in a love relationship with a guy for 4 years and we broke up, then I moved back to US. due to my tensions, I flirted with a guy and had fake love relationship for almost 6 months, I introduced him to my family and both his and my family know about us and both the families want us to marry. But before couple of months, I met another guy whom I truly truely fell in deep love, I proposed him and he accepted too after few days, I told him all my past history including sex relationship with my previous boyfriend by to my country 4 years ago. This new guys loves me too much too. But if I marry him, its gonna be a intercaste marriage, which cannot be accepted in my family. more over I don't wanna break heart of the guy whom I flirted, that was my mistake to flirt and I don't wanna break heart of my family too,. so I told my new love to leave me and continue only as friend, but he denies to do so, he says... one should not marry the girl , knowin the fact that she loves other guy. I already have sex relation with the new guy too. i am really in dillemma, wheather to pick my true love and fight with society and family or stick with the guy I flirted for whole my life keeping my family and this guy happy.. I am tensed, I need suggestions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2009): You are flying around between continents solely because of romantic entanglements, you are are having "fake love relationships" and proposing (!) to guys. You need to become a stable person before you can be in marriage with anyone. Work on that and forget dating for a few years.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (13 November 2009):
 I think you should do some growing up before you marry ANYONE!Your post belies the fact that you lack the maturity necessary to be in a marriage. If you are in such a dilemma, I suggest you not rush into this. when you have these kinds of dilemma about who to marry you will ultimately second guess yourself.Intercaste marriage or not, you will be unhappy either way at this point no matter who you marry, so don't marry anyone
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reader, bitch +, writes (13 November 2009):
I have an answer to your dilema. You should only get married if you feel a deep love for the person you are marrying or your marriage won't last. And I think you should wait to get married, you sound too young to make such a life changing decision.
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reader, marcosp +, writes (13 November 2009):
I think you should pick your true love its your love life not your familys so don't worried what they are going to think or say they'll get over it
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