A
female
age
41-50,
*arlye
writes:Dear Cupid,I'm mentally tortured and need your help badly.The agony of my life started when I've met him and we became close to each other. I thought he is a gentleman guy as he revealed to me all his past. He was married with one daughter. His wife left him and took his child. We talked all day and exchanged sms. On my birthday he was the first one who greeted on me and whole night we were talking. One night when we were chatting, I asked him to come to my house so we can have a cup of coffee. He came and we talked and we had sex. While we are having sex, I asked him if he loves me and he said yes. After having sex he immediately dressed up and told he has to leave. On the next day, I was waiting for his SMS to at least greet me good morning, but very say I havent received anything. Although he spoke to me during the day. In the evening, I was waiting for him to call me, but he didnt call me. I sent him an SMS and I said "I feel so ashamed to myself, and I hope whatever happens will just remain to us". He replied to me with an SMS "What?" so I didnt reply, then reply again and said "I am waiting for your reply. What the hell are you trying to say". I replied to him and said stop talking to me rude as I can rude to you to as well. He replied and said "You're sick in your mind, please leave me alone as I dont want to talk to you anymore". I tried to call him but he dont answer his phone. Then I went to see him in his house, but he dont want me to enter so then I push the door and when I entered I close it and accidentally he thought that I bang his door. He told me "You fucking leave this room now"I couldnt take that anymore so I started crying inside his house. He scared me and said if you will not leave my house, I will call a security and will make noise here to embarrass you. So then I left his house. I didnt say anything, but told him that I love him.On the next morning, I have met him and said Good Morning and he greeted me too. In the afternoon, when I opened my facebook, he already deleted me. Today, I phoned him up and asked him if we can have lunch together and he said I'm busy so I told him if you are free, could you please call me and he said ok Let's see. I've waited for his call, but he didnt call me. I saw him and asked him why he didnt come for lunch and he said "I'm not here for vacation" and left me.Just now, I phoned him up and said if he can come to my office. He told me I'm not coming there as I'm busy and dont have time. So then he disconnected the line. I sent him reply and said "Thank you very much as you are so kind and will never forget you". He replied back and said "Once and for all stop this. You keep bothering me I will have to take this matter up", I replied to him that you just used me and dont worry I will leave this job soon. He replied back and said "Do what you feel and life, stop accusing I used you. One more SMS from you and I will have to report you. Out of anger, I told him that do what you want as I'm not afraid. I will even help you to put complaint against me if you like.Now, I've seen him in his boss office and I'm sure he is talking about me.Cupid, please help me. How should I avoid him? and what should I do to completely forget that man.thanks.
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reader, carlye +, writes (13 November 2009):
carlye is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your reply.
Yes you are probably right. I have learned from this lesson and I will help myself to stand up and forget everything.
If his wife had left him, I'm sure it's not the fault of the lady..it could be him.
From today onwards, I have promised to myself to move on.
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