A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I really can't understand her. She used to have feelings toward me and she told me she is attracted to me. After a day, she has started to hurt my feelings like saying move on, find someone better, we should keep distance and we might not get together. Then recently, she started to be nice to me, saying nice things and started addressing me with my nickname(she normally dosen't do that haha). Then yeterday, we were chatting, she told me,"hey I noticed we are chatting almost everyday" And then she said she wants to stop having contacts with me for a month and wants to see whether am I able to control my self. Btw, she has a bf but not in good terms with him and wants to end the relationship and she told me he would'nt allow for a brake up. Im confused, does she still likes me? Am I still in her heart?
View related questions:
move on Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, jman06 +, writes (13 November 2009):
Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants(she knows she wants something more tho). The more you pull away the more she wants to try to string you along. She is confused or at least doing a good job confusing everyone else. If you like her and want be with her, tell her that your not playing these games with her, tell her how you feel and make a move. If it happens, it happens but I wouldn't sit around waiting for her. Whatever you do make sure its what you want to do and you'll have nothing to fear.
|