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writes:im a 16 years old sophmore im bi and i think im in love with a good friend of mine. hes 17 years old and a senior.he is straight and used to date one of my best friends. now i told him i was bi and he said he didnt really care.things were going really well with us and now they are just going south. i txt him and he never replys. we pass each other and the hallway ever day but when we see each other he turns away. we ocassionally talk but not like we used to. i mean there wasnt a thing we couldnt talk about. he just out of the blue changed towards me and it hurts not talking to him. he used to let me lay on him ive kissed him on the cheek and all and he never changed on me. is it because hes growing up and moving on? or is it something maybe i did and just dont know?
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (13 November 2009):
 you can never really tell with people, you could just be growing apart- or he's growing apart from you. If so, there isn't much you can do, people change and you just have to think about all the good time you had together and move on.
what do you mean by 'and stuff', because otherwise it could be that he's homophobic and thinks less of you because your bi. Although, even so, ya never know, it could be that he has had no problem with you but is being influenced by someone who would, or if anyone else had ever found out about your sexuality and was slagging him about going out with a guy.
some people are jerks. Fact. If it's his problem that he can't deal with it then find some friends who will accept you
hope this all works out for you!
good luck
xx
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