A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Recently I found out that my girlfriend of 5 1/2 years was molested by her brother from the 3rd grade through middle school (she was 9 and he was 14 when it started). Her brother and I met in our freshman year of high school and have been best friends for about 12 years. On top of that, I also learned that 5 years ago they had sex, twice on two different occasions, while on ecstasy. I've used ecstasy before and it never made me do something that I already didn't want to do. How am I supposed to move on from this? How can I continue to be with her? How can I possibly look him in the face? It is really eating me up inside and I don't know what to do.
View related questions:
best friend, move on Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2009): Break off the friendship with him and support your girlfriend in reporting him to the cops. He is a child molester, and no doubt he was the reason they had sex again 5 years ago. An abuser can have a very solid grip on their victim and are great manipulators. Support your girlfriend and bring this brother to court. He should pay her for ruining her childhood.
|
