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age
36-40,
*o~jo87
writes:hi im a 22year old female, im going out with a 34 year old male, iv always gone for older blokes, im a confident person, im a big girl, i always have been, problem is i dont have alot of confidence in the bedroom department. i dont 'dare' make the first move. my b.f has been with older women before me and isnt used to alot of sex, iv tried to talk about it but he just says im not used to alot of sex but i am, i enjoy it alot, i just need a bit of help on how 2 make the first move and how TO make him want me more, all your comments will b appreciated dearly. thanks x
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reader, jo~jo87 +, writes (16 November 2009):
jo~jo87 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionjust an update, i have found out that he just isnt used 2 lots of sex, im working my magic 2 get it abit more often, thanks 4 ur answers and i will b trying them all, xx
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reader, Revan +, writes (13 November 2009):
It may sound unorthodox but watch various elements of porn!
Such as:
women teasing men when they sleep
decent sensual porn not typical crap
(Imatation is excellent education)
foreplay! explore his body and find out what drives him wild!
tie him to the bed, tickle him with a feather (erotically)
kiss him all over, gently stimulate his erogenous zones and slowly build up to direct stimulation of his cock he will be wound up with desire!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2009): People have all different levels of sex drive. Make sure that you're not taking his lower sex drive personally - feeling insecure is unsexy to men. The best way to get more sex is to just initiate it yourself - give him a massage, wear his favorite undies, let him catch you checking him out daily. Men are suckers for flattery. Good luck!
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