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writes:I love my boyfriend but I feel that I am not in love with him.My boyfriend and I have known each other since we were teenagers although we did lose touch for a few years, I am now 28 and he is 27. I was absolutely head over heels in love with my ex boyfriend around 3 and a half years ago and he broke my heart completely.I have been with my present boyfriend for just over two years, he had been honest aboout how he felt about me for years and at first I just wanted to be friends but this progressed into something more. Before I knew it we had started seeing each other and he had told friends and family about our relationship although I in fact wanted to take it slowly (he has not had many serious relationships). From the start it felt wierd sleeping with him, as though we were doing something wrong and there was never much passion felt on my side and still to this day there rarely is. Although I really do truly love him, I know he will take care of me and treat me well, there is still something missing. I long for a man who will make me feel sexy again and make me feel like a woman.I honestly do not know what to do. Should I stay with him and just live my life wondering what if forever or do I tell him how I feel and break his heart? He really is my true friend and I don't want to lose him, I think that is why I have stayed with him so long in the first place, because I don't want to risk losing him.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (19 December 2009):
 It is truly sad that so many men do not know much about pleasing a woman sexually. It is really not very hard to do if they wish to learn. There are some good writings on this Web site, and one of the best books on the topic I've known is "She Comes First" by Dr. Ian Kerner. If you can get him to read it, and if he enthusiastically applies the the knowledge imparted therein, you should live a happy life together.
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