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writes:Ok, hi everyone, im kinda really wanting to do this but not sure if its going 2 work or not,I was kinda seeing this guy and we stoped talking, he didnt reply 2 any of my text messeges or answer tho phone to me, But my problam is i cant stop thinking about him, and often want 2 text him,but stop myself from doing it, But ive mentioned it to a work mate and she sai just go round and knock on his door, if he shuts the door in ur face then u no for sure hes not intrested in u, Well, ive been thinking and if i where 2 do it would b tonight as have a works do and would have a few so would be confident enough to do it, But then i think no lolIve also been thinking should i send a text to him on xmas day to say merry christmasAny advice on should i do this knock at his door or just leave it,Even tho hes constently on my mind Please reply 2 me
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reader, Advice_man  +, writes (19 December 2009):
 I am currently in a similar situation. This girl likes me, she texted me 2-3 times and I turn down her offers politely. The thing is, we men are simple: if we like you we will make it clear, and if we are not interested again we will show you! We are not complicated like girls are :) You made your move, he didn't respond....some win, some loose. In your case I would discontinue any contact with him and move on. Cheers!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): Wow i am in this very situation. I also even thought about the xmas message. But then i thought i am just gonna leave it even though he on my mind even though i don't want him to be. Trying to force things never works out coz it will all be a lie. I hope you have the strength in you to just let things go. Who knows. Maybe you will bump into him some time
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (19 December 2009):
 awww, its horrid to be left dangling, not knowing whats going on. But if he is ignoring your texts and phone calls that he doesnt want to be in touch with you.
Put it down to a bad experience and walk away, have a few drinks but dont knock on his door, laugh about the fact you considered doing it instead.
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