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writes: Alright so im a guy and im 15. And i'm always in a sexual mood now a days.And i always find myself horny, or aroused,sometime for no reason at all. Is it normal to be horny all the time? I mean i guess i would say im a sexual person, siunce im feeling thsi way. But ive never had a girl friend or anything. So i wouldnt now. And it really doesn't help, because i think i might be attracted to both sexes. So i'm in a pretty confusing state at the moment, and i dont know what to do. I would like to have a girlfriend but my parents will never allow me to. I really need someone, someone tocare for me and me to care for them. I dont really have friends out of school, becuase my parents dont allow me to be social. They are overbearing. So i end up feeling lonely and sad all the time. So i really need someone there for me. And i wonder if i would have someone to love, it might lessen the all the time hornyness. But i dont know... i need help
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): yep, totally normal to be horny. a girlfriend/boyfriend is not required to feel that. so is the want for campanionship. that will come with time. communication and honestly is always the best policy in any relationship, so talk to your folks. be polite, but be direct in your thoughts so they know exactly what it is you seek. you'll get there!
and also love won't stop the horniness...just gives other ways to express it. for now, masturbation will help take the edge off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): You sounds 100% normal- at your age a breeze is likely to give you a hard on- it's the way your DNA is programmed to reproduce. The females are getting to the age to get fertile, and the species needs to reproduce. (keep in mind you're fighting about a million years of DNA here, so you body thinks you might die and the ripe old age of about 30... since once people did...).Seriously, you're normal, every guy on the planet has been there, there are days when you'll get a stiffy in the middle of class for no good reason... just relax, and it will pass. As to attraction, give it a year, right now your body just wants to get off- there's an eagerness to experiencing sex with someone, your mind may been seeking out ANYONE... for this... but in a while the hormones are likely to relax a bit.As for your folks, they'll allow it, and likely sooner than you think. Get involved with a social group at school that has after hours activities- I took me till 11th grade to find the right group to hang around with, and it made HS alot more fun- hang in there, it gets a lot better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): Its totally normal at your age.
When I was 15 I was rampantly horny!! But I too didn't have a girlfriend till a couple of years later. You just have to deal with it as any guy would ;-)
As far as your parents are concerned, maybe they might lighten up on you when you reach 16? You should talk to them and say you want some more freedom. I don't know if that's helpful but the horniness is totally normal.
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reader, SV  +, writes (19 December 2009):
Nothing to worry about. That's just the hormones raging all over your body. When i was 15 i'd get erections in class all the time. As for the loneliness, use the spare time you have to find a hobby that you enjoy. Good luck
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reader, paulofessex +, writes (19 December 2009):
 Yes it can be and is normal to be sexually aroused alot, seeing as your of young age also. You have alot going on for you at the moment so l would suggest plucking up the courage to call Childline (your too old you know) they can help you perhaps find a local source of help within your area. You can call them free from a call box or if you have a mobile do a internet search for 0800buster as this allows you to call for free from your mobile.
Wishing you all the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): If you parents are too over bearing then you have to sit them down and try to make a deal with them like i'll be home by ten, i'll keep my mobile on in case of an emergency to see what works. As for been horny all the time that is very natural. On average teenage guys think of sex 15 times a minuet so don't worry. Try to persuade your parents to let you out more so you can focus on being in a relationship.
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