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writes:Today I hung out with my boyfriend and we got on to the topic of sex. We weren't even talking about anything like that before, but he randomly started the topic. He said that like everyone has done it from his school. I think that he was hinting that we should have sex. I do not think I am ready for that it might be because we have just had a rough patch, but I dont know. We have been going out for ten months. So am i just stupid or should i consider it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): If you're unable to talk about sex with him any more safely & openly than this, then you are absolutely not ready.
This isn't a joke. Some people get pregnant on their first times. Some people even get STDs on their first times.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): I would definatly save my v card until I was ready. My first boyfriend and I dated for 11 months. I was in love with him, but the first time I went to his house and we were alone, I felt pressure to have sex just because it was the next step in the relationship. I left the house before anything happened just because I was not ready. I lost my virginity with my next boyfriend, and when I did, I did not have any doubts or regrets about anything before or afterward. I just felt ready. If you do not feel ready I would definatly wait!
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (19 December 2009):
 DONT DO IT
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