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*ocker_grl_96
writes:OK so there is a guys that i just met at the beginning of the school year and i thought he was really weird but then after i broke up with my boyfriend of the time the guy started to get a little closer to me and i started to like him, after a while i confessed and he just didn't say anything about it like we always talked about stuff and we were always really forward about things, plus any time we were hanging out and one of us has leaving he would come up and hug me really really tight then about a month after i had confessed i begged for him to tell me if he liked me or not cause he never really gave me a strait answer, his response was that he didn't know we well enough to decide whether or not he like me back. so he told me to wait. and i did, for 2 months....then i asked again and he said the same thing....finally after three and half months he gave me a strait forward no, but now he talks to me a lot more and the other day i was walking off and he came and gave me huged before i could walk more than a few feet away and when i tried to pull away he pulled me back in even tighter.....so i need help, wat should i do? keep trtying? or give up?
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reader, rocker_grl_96 +, writes (20 December 2009):
rocker_grl_96 is verified as being by the original poster of the question the only other problem that's come up is the fact that he is only 1 grade above me, he is technically three years older than me, but my birthday is next month so ....yeah.....
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (19 December 2009):
 Hugs can just be between friends, I think he really likes you but just as a friend. good luckxx
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (19 December 2009):
Maybe he just likes you as a friend. Not every guy you talk to is going to be interested in a romantic way. Maybe he hugs you because he doesnt want to hurt your feelings. It sounds like he is enjoying being adored by you so stop asking him. It will look desperate and needy. Maintain your dignity by treating him as a good friend and soon he will be wondering why you are not melting at his feet anymore. Guys are not usually interested in girls who like them too much. The thrill is in the chase. While you are chasing him, he will focus on chasing someone else so be friendly, but you have done enough now. Also look at other guys and make new friends but as a woman you should NEVER chase!! You are the queen! He should be the one coming after you! If he's not..... next please!! Enjoy!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 December 2009):
Like all young men, he's confused about how he feels. The answer though, is not to try. He may just be getting a kick out of you fancying him. If he really likes you, he must now come to you8 and ask you out. You did all the running and he said no. Now it's his turn to come to you.
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