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writes:i have a bestfriend, yes shes a girl too. ive known her for many years now. when we were younger we did stuff ( fingered eachother). we're way older now and dont even mention it. back then i wasnt attracted to her but now i am. im bi but no body knows but me and i plan on keeping it that way. she has a boyfriend and i cant stand it. i keep wanting them to break up but they wont. i have dreams where im kissing her and stuff and i reallllyyy want to. one time she slept over and we were just kidding around, you know how nowadays teens play around being like gay and say hey baby to eachother and stuff? well we were playing and she said kiss me. and i honestly wanted to. i highly doubt shes bi and i want to kiss her so bad and do stuff with her so bad but im scared she gets disgusted and stops being my friend or tells my secret, i dont know what to do. should i kiss her one day or talk to her about it or what? please help!
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (20 December 2009):
 HMMM well the thing is she has a bf so if you approach her knowing that its like your a homewrekker basically would you want somebody coming in and stealing your girl. If your age is correct im gonna have to say your to young to be getting involved with a serious relation ship if your Bi and want to keep it a secret you wont be able to for long if you have a gf your parents will probably notice eventually, your at an age where life gets difficult for many reasons having an intense sexual relation ship could turn out bad. But if you insist you could start of with something simple instead of jumping into a kiss try telling her shes pretty flrt with her a little bit try to find out if she has feelings for you.any way good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): tell her the truth if shes really your friend she would understand. tell her what u mean to her. or talk to her and be like have you ever thought that mabey u were bi? and see what she says. good luck!
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