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writes:Hey whats up im 21 years old,and have been with my girlfriend who is 18 soon to be 19 for almost 2 years. She is amazing the most perfect, sweet and caring person in the world. We liked each other for years before we finally dated . We fight alot like too much, but we still love eachother. We got into a fight and she left and went home. She came back over my house the following day and then again the day after that we hungout and had a good time, just watching movies eating some food relaxing. she was suppose to come over the next day and never showed up or answered my phone calls and then again the same situation for the following day after that its now the following day and i still havent heard from her in almost 3 days now and its driving me crazy i dont know im just so confused she said she wants to work things out between us but she dosent want to jump back into the relationship in fear of having it fall apart all over again . But why is she ignoring me she didnt ignore me the day after we broke up she was here for the next 2 days hanging out, she told me she wanted to work on things between us so i thought things were gonna go good, but now shes ignoring me and i dont understand why . i think its rude to not answer someones phone calls and to go missing for almost 3 days with no prior reason or explination to it so i dont know i just hope we talk soon i cant be without her shes the love of my life she truly is i know were young but things between us were just pure magic. and at the same time we had very bad times. but in my eyes the good times out weigh the bad because when times were good they were truly amazing so if any women out there or men have any advice for me or maybe an explination to why she wont answer my calls and kind of disappeared out of the blue i appreciate all the feedback i get so thanks in advance im just really hoping i have christmas with her
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (20 December 2009):
 Hmm theres alot of reasons your not gonna like any the best one is maybe she lost her phone, but as we progress the reason get worse. She could be seing some one else and doesnt want to face you to tell you, obviously she has made a conscience effort not to get in contact with you she could be dead though or in a horrible accident or something maybe you could call her parents but i wouldnt i suggest you wean your self of of your dependence on this girl atlas a broken heart takes time to mend but it will its not healthy to be that mutch in love. Try giving thing a break stop calling her move on when and if she calls her hopefully she has a satisfactory excuse like she was donating a lung, and dont just jump back into her arms you gotta play it cool, so no telling her you love her and you missed her and basically anything mushy, in the mean time id suggest start looking for a new gf.
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