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writes:*Names have been changed.A friend of mine had a party last weekend. My best friend and I went together and she knew this guy who would be going, so we found him sat with a band that would be playing later on in the night. Because she was friends with him we choose to pretty much stay with them the entire night. Her and I were pretty drunk having drank before we came. My best friend went off somewhere with the guy she knew and I was left with the band. I suddenly became very shy and one by one then started heading to the back room. I quietly made the comment 'fine, leave me' (I was joking) and one of them -Luke- told me to come with them. I'd had my eyes on Luke since the moment I saw him. There was just something about his smile and the way he looked at me that made my stomach do flips. Through the night another one of the band members -Greg- became a little more confident and started talking to me. Greg didn't have anything attractive about him, at least not to me, and he just seemed like he was after a fuck. But stupidly that didn't stop me from flirting with him (which I do regret). At one point when they were setting up on stage I had two guys on both sides of me both flirting madly with me, neither one I was interested in. Greg and Luke must have seen because when they came off stage they joked about it. By the end of the night Greg had his arm around me and I had my legs rested in Luke's lap. Luke began attempting to take my shoes off with that smile that made me go crazy, I left Greg's arms and leant forward to play fight with Luke. I just wanted to kiss him because I was so close, but we didn't. The guys had to put their amps and stuff away so Luke did as much as he could to clean up. Greg did nothing and stayed with me to get my number. My best friend told me we had to leave so I never had the chance to say bye to Luke or get his number. Greg's been texting me non-stop since the night, and he's become obsessive. I feel awful that he likes me (though I suspect he's still just after a fuck) and I have no interest in him. I haven't been able to get Luke out of my mind since, I keep replaying when he was sat beside me and strumming on his guitar. There was something so perfect about him. So, my problem is what do I do with them? I'm not sure about the guy code thing between them. I certainly don't want to break up their band and/or their friendship but from what people said Luke was interested in me too. Should I just tell Greg the truth and pursue Luke? I have never felt something so strong for anyone before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): tell greg the truth and pursue luke
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