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writes:my ex emailed me to tell me he had got married-there had been a lot of friction due to the split so i was happy to clear the air with him-he said he wanted to stay friendsthe only thing was i was emailing him andhe wasnt replying til 2 in the morning and was really weird in the emails bringing up stuff about how he still had some of my old belongings in his parents attic ???in the end i delted him because i felt he was just trying to get a rise out of me so i ended it by sending an apology email and wished him success for his future and that was in september.now last night i get an email saying how he cant forget me-doesnt want to forget me etc.he keeps referring to the house we had together which he kept when i left and later sold-i got none about how things were hard for him and he nearly lost the house.is this normal behaviour for someone who has been married 8 months ? why the hell is he dredging all this stuff up-is he playing sick mind games. i never responded to the email but it has still upset me why he would need to do this-can anyone advise please thankyou Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (19 December 2009):
 Like OlderSister wrote, it really doesn't matter. You can not control his behavior. You can however control yourself. I don't think that it is (what I would consider) normal to go digging in the past only 8 months into a new marriage. But as for the reason to why he is doing it.. I have no idea and really IT DOESN'T MATTER.You guys split for whatever reason, he now wants to pull you back in, maybe as a safety net or someone to feel sorry for him and listen to his story of "woe". Honestly I would tell him, that you don't really need his friendship and then block him. No matter what it will be a lot harder for you to move forward with him trying to hang on to "the good ole times".Move on, honey. He is a waste of time.
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