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writes:im fed up with him i honesly in my mind dont wanna go thru the drama anymore but my heart wont let me end it i dont know know how 2 just leave him alone please someone help me n my dilemma.he doesnt abuse me in any kind of way he just doesnt have any time everything else is more important than being with me. i try 2 understand he dooes alot of working in multiple business but when is it my turn to get some time he keeps telling me it wont always b like this but its been over a yr and nothing seems 2 b changing should i stick in there or just leave i just get o frustrated what should i o Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): Some people are very dedicated to their work and family comes second. You either get used to this or not. I've known folks that work hard to give the kid a trip to Disneyland, and who think this is worth the sacrifice of not spending enough quality time with the kid. I suppose your partner likes to live high or else he could probably work less, you say he has multiple jobs. Who knows, he might want to save up for later, you can't blame him for that. But bear in mind it could be a permanent lifestyle, and you should decide what is what you want. You could run riot / try and make the best of the time you do get to spend together, or you could leave and get from somewhere else the attention you crave for. It's ideal if you have a more similar schedule, so see if you can find yourself some new interests if you plan on sticking together, because it doesn't seem he will change his lifestyle very soon, to please you. You should talk more about this.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (19 December 2009):
It's ok him saying "Things will change."
But unless he can tell you WHEN, then it's no good waiting around.
If you are this upset then you have to walk away.
Love is ok, but happiness is ALWAYS the most important thing.
Good Luck!! xx
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