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writes: i have been living with this man that i love very much but he works 7 days a week,this leaves him tired and not ever wanting to have sex,i want to ask if that makes a man not ever want to have sex or could it be something else Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): My husband and I have been married for 3 years and he works 10 hours a day. When he comes home the last thing on his mind is sex - in fact, it's usually chill out doing whatever takes his mind off the world for an hour. I make dinner and we eat together, we watch a movie and by then I'm the one that's tired and he's more awake so goes to finish up projects around the house. By the time he comes to bed, i'm asleep. We both get up at 4am, we're both tired and I certainly don't have much of a sex drive, neither does he. We're both too tired and stressed.
Just because tiredness can be the cause though, doesn't mean it is. Best thing to do is talk to him and let him tell you the reason...
Good luck! xx
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