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*rishBoy93
writes:hey, well im 16 and ive been scared recently because my girlfriend got a vibrator, and im afraid it will replace foreplay, and my actual penis. im about average size (maybe smaller) and im still a virgin and leading towards sex. But im worried that since my girlfriend is using the vibrator that she will be use to the pleasure it gives. I have heard that a vibrator gives and amazing experience, and nothing can really beat the physical pleasure it gives. All in all, would she choose a vibrator over my penis to pleasure her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): a vibrator is just a substitute when you arent there and a bonus when you are. no way would i choose mine over my man. its not a threat its an asset. mal
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reader, 127508 +, writes (21 December 2009):
 dude dont worry women would always choose the real over the fake!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): Dude, relax- and rejoice! You have a girl who's sexually liberated enough to not only buy one, but tell you about it and use it! Sex toys are great fun, combined with real live sex... She'll enjoy BOTH! Sometimes at the same time!
relax and enjoy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): Awws, sweetie relax. Nothing can ever replace a real man. The vibrator doesn't smell of a man, doesn't have hands to grab around us, doesn't give kisses or signs of affection, doesn't have gorgeous arm muscles that we just wanna drool over. The vibrator doesn't do anything near all that a man can do.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (19 December 2009):
Just to add to what Satin says really:
Vibrators are great, but they are no where as good as real sex with someone you love.
It is exactly the same as you having a wank. Yes it gives you an orgasm. But there's no kissing, there's no love, there's no eye contact, there's no playing and giving pleasure.
Sex is all about intimacy and being with that other person. It's about connecting.
A vibrator is good but it'll never cuddle you afterwards and tell you you're beautiful. This is why men are better.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, loner  +, writes (19 December 2009):
 Just another things. Satindesire is completly right. My boyfriend actually bought me a vibrator because he was not doing the right thing, so he says, help her use it, it will be great fun working together with it.. Besides I actually love his penis penatration a lot more, the vibrator is just for the extra spark.. So don't worry..
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