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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am in love with my teacher. I know this sounds cliche, ridiculous, like a "crush" if you will, but from the bottom of my heart, I feel this. He's tall, charming, witty and hilarious. He's such a happy person and brightens everyone's day. I can't make eye contact with him without getting red or smiling, especially if he's laughing/smiling...then I'm just about cheesing it. He's mature and serious, yet there's a side that lets loose and brings out the kid in him. The way he randomly shouts movie quotes and goofs around is so dorky and adorable! He is unlike anyone I have ever met. I never knew a person could be so filled with life. Of course, the problem. He is my teacher, I am his student. He is 25, I am 16. I knoew for a fact that this is 100% illegal and I would never act on this for the sake of his job, and our seperate lives.What kills me even more is how good of a man he really is. He has students who dress very cheap in revealing clothing, and his eyes do not move from theirs. He doesn't hit on me, wink at me, or give me higher grades. When he sees me in the hallway, he'll give me a highfive and say hello. When we make eye contact in class, he stares for a few seconds, gives a sweet smile and goes back to work. He truly loves what he does and cares.I need advice of what to do with my situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): You have a teacher crush which is common in your age group when girls are most impressionable.
It can be a positive thing because if your admiration and liking for him makes you hang on his every word and sparks your interest in learning, then your grades are going to go up and you are actually going to learn something.
Teaching is an art as well as a science and your teacher is able to motivate you to learn. Sometimes these positive feel good feelings from being excited about learning can be mistaken for "love".
Just don't go acting on them or thinking they are real love, they aren't, you just have a skilled teacher on your hands.
Pay attention to him and learn.. He isn't going to return your feelings of love, this isn't his first rodeo.
Good luck in school.
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