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writes:in the morning i come to the place were my boyfriend stands but i get there before him so i talk to any of my friends that are there too. when he comes he goes to his friends first sometimes and then goes to me and my friend who is with me goes go talk to him but i feel like i should not be the one to always go to him am i right? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009): Well next time you go to that place chat to your friend,and wait for him to ocme over
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (19 December 2009):
 Relationships don't mean you can't talk to anyone else first and you have to go straight to that person and no one else. He wants to visit with his friends as well. Would it make you happier if he came to you and then left to go to his friends? There's no difference.
He probably just knows that he'd rather be with you until the bell rings and then walk you to class. You have to be more flexible and start picking your battles, and this isn't one that you should have picked. Give him his friend time. Relationships all too often end in one or both people losing their friends because they choose to spend all of their time with their gf/bf. Don't let this be one of them.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (19 December 2009):
 But you arent always going to him, you stand there with your friends, he comes, he says hello to his friends, sometimes your friend goes and says hello to him and then he comes to you.
Whats wrong with you going to him when you first see him appear? Why hang around waiting for all the other rigmarole to happen. If you walked towards him as soon as he appeared he would probably greet you first.
If you are going to be unbending at this age, imagine what you will be like in 20 years time ........... erk! Be like the grass, and bend with the wind
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