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writes:When me and my boyfriend have sex, he likes to spank me hard with his belt and he has even stuck a few pins in my bum as we are doing it. Do other people get punished the same way? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2009): Thank you to all the replies. I have read all of them and cannot figure out why he likes to give me this punishment.One of the responses said if we were frequent with sex, we do it about 3 times a week. I usually get the belt for 2 of those times and get the pins once a week. He says it is a total turnon to see 4 or 5 pins sticking in my bum as he does me. He says the belt marks are his marks of love. It was exciting at first, but now it is damn painful!! He treats me so good that it is hard to tell him this is too much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): sex is supposed to be pleasurable, not painful.. how are you going to enjoy it when you have pins stuck in your bottom..if you dont like it, then you need to let him know about it right away. may be you should spank him and stick pins in his bum...i am sure he wont enjoy it.
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (20 December 2009):
 Not without consent.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (20 December 2009):
 UM that sounds painful if you dont mind i guess its ok i only see that kind of stuff in hardcore porn videos not that i have ever watched any ever. My thing is he may have some anger issues the pins thats a new one it might not be healthy for you in the long run specially if you have sex frequently personally i would suggest he get a pinada and take out his frustrations on something without a heartbeat or a soul
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): Don't feel like you are the only one who gets punished during sex. My boyfriend likes to do it rough such as pulling my hair, spanking me, whipping me with the belt, and has stuck a tack in my bum, and left it there when we are having sex.
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (19 December 2009):
 Some people do, some people don't.
The key point to remember is that the ones who do do it WILLINGLY!
If you're not happy with your boyfriends approach to sex, you don't have to agree to it.
While it isn't the "Norm", it isn't unheard of.
As long as YOU are ok with it, then there's no problem - if you're not, then you need to tell him and not go there.
You don't have to feel bad about liking it though, either :)
xxx
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (19 December 2009):
Some people do, some people don't.
The key point to remember is that the ones who do do it WILLINGLY!
If you're not happy with your boyfriends approach to sex, you don't have to agree to it.
While it isn't the "Norm", it isn't unheard of.
As long as YOU are ok with it, then there's no problem - if you're not, then you need to tell him and not go there.
You don't have to feel bad about liking it though, either :)
xxx
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