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writes:Shyness has always been a big problem for me and recently I've noticed a lot of girls staring at me. There is a girl who sits over the other side of the office who Im sure fancies me, staring alot. A while back she started walking past and she said hello a couple of times when passing but never smiles, now this has stopped but other people are constantly staring at me, coughing as they walk past and when I am there, it's obviously deliberate as they walk past, giving me evils like I am some kind of criminal. There is one collegue of hers who is always looking over at me and sometimes i really wanna just go over there and tell her to **** off. This isn't fair they have no write judging me when they don't really know me. I don't find her that attractive and I kind of get the impression she things she drop dead gorgeous!I don't really talk to women much other than work matters as I am not confident in myself and find conversation difficult, I expect people who have worked there might think it's strange if they no I haven't had a girlfriend in the time I worked there for a number of years but I think they should mind there own business. There have been other times in the past when other girls seem to be interested but then I don't make a move so they give up. This is making me very unhappy at work so much so I almost quit and I am not really sure what to do.Any advice please.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (19 December 2009):
 Okay, before you quit your job, just check to see if there is something obvious that is drawing their attention that you are unaware of, get a close relative or friend to give you the once over, does your hair knot at the back and you havent noticed, are your clothes obviously mismatched, anything, also check out with your doctor, maybe there is a slight medical problem that you are unaware of, smelly breath etc, explain to him what is happening at work and how it is affecting you, he may be able to refer you on.
Good luck with it all
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): Girls staring at me. That's great. They probably like me. Gaze back into the eyes of the ones you like. Say 'Hi', they'll likely start talking.
The 'drop dead gorgeous' one maybe trying to give you that impression in an attempt to make YOU think she looks good.
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